Coffee & Donuts with the Dearly Departed
By Steve Frenzl (µž³Ü²õā70)
(Self-published, 263 pages; 2018)
Steve Frenzlās (µž³Ü²õā70) two-volume fictionalized memoir, titled āCoffee & Donuts with the Dearly Departedā tells the story of Steveās adventures working as an apprentice at Boulderās Howe Mortuary in the late 1960s.
If the needy young man looking for work to get through college in the late 1960s had known what he was getting into before accepting a job as a mortuary nightman, itās safe to say there would be no book about it now. But he didnātā¦ thus began a two-year adventure that, for Steve, gave whole new meaning to āthe dead of nightā and produced a uniquely revealing account of life (and death) as a morticianās apprentice.
Voiced in the vernacular of a callow farm kid (where decomposing cows and butchered chickens provided practical pre-people training), his memories and musings cover most aspects of the death-care profession, including jaw-dropping (actually, locking) details of the embalming process, oh-my-God coronerās cases, and even some dab-your-eyes love stories. In fact, his experiences tease all the senses, plus take readersā heads and hearts on a crazy roller coaster ride ā all while tempering normally ghastly tales with humor. (Wellā¦ mostly.) And thatās thanks to the bossās ever rosy reminders: āDonāt forgetā¦ the first three letters in āfuneralā are F-U-N.ā
In addition to his book, Steve published the āLife-Alone Planner,ā a free, digital workbook to help survivors prepare for life without their loved ones.